Wednesday, September 5, 2007

CHANGE THE WAY YOU SEE EVERYTHING

What’s your feeling if you find unexpected happening to you that you were not aware of it before? For example, you are an excellent employee in your company and you really like your job and your career. But the condition of company is not run well, so they has laid off you and tomorrow will your last day at the office.

How do you feel if you said that is not fair for me..? Sad, unhappy, disappointed, or displeased.
How do you feel if you said that does not matter since there are lot of opportunity outside, it is beginning for success, to reach your goal or dream…?

There are different response for that situation. Some of us focus on the problem, barriers, setbacks, breakdowns and focus on what's wrong with our lives and others'. We call it deficit based thinking which demagnetizes you. It sets in motion the “laws of repulsion.”
Meanwhile, Few of us focus on what’s working rather than what’s not and favors inspiration and aspiration over desperation. We called it Asset Based Thinking. Magnetized with Asset-Based Thinking, you embody the “Laws of Attraction.” This means that what you think, say, and do attracts an enormous number of external assets (the commitment, support, and dedicated efforts of other people, the inherent advantages, benefit, and rewards of every situation).

Asset-Based Thinking calls for small shifts in the way people absorb, perceive, filter, and interpret information. It changes the way we see everything, leading to dramatic improvements in the way we live and work.
Through Asset-Based Thinking anyone can lead more productive and personally fulfilling lives. We must consider three things to change the way you see from deficit base thinking to asset based thinking. First is change the way you see yourself, second is change the way you see others and the third is change the way you see the situation.
CHANGE THE WAY YOU SEE YOURSELF
The one who really know who you are is yourself. Please find out what your asset, capability and resources. Be focus on what you have.
CHANGE THE WAY YOU SEE OTHERS
You can not change others but you can change yourself BY seeing others.
CHANGE THE WAY YOU SEE THE SITUATION
discern and consent to new situation
be focus to positive thing in new environment and situation
100 % commitment to involve yourself in new situation.
Noticed your thinking, it will be your words
Noticed your words, it will be your action
Noticed your action, it ill be your habit
Noticed your habit, it will be your character.